[Machi]

So its the part where moderators should  step in and cut all negative!!!

totally, moderators please step up and start doing your job.

[edais]

yeah, it's sad…I don't have a desire to be part of midwest psytrance community anymore. Too much hatred from certain people here for whatever reasons are. Some seem to be very eloquent but in reality they are full of shit and bring nothing to the table anyone can benefit from.

I feel really blessed to get connected to a lot of people here I probably wouldn't be otherwise. I managed to make a lot of true friends at psytrance parties and I really hope some feel the same way towards me. But everything that has been going on lately (take a note that I am not talking about Abe here) is really beyond what I want to be part off.

You'll snap out of it.  I feel like that sometimes too, but overall I still find more positive things from being a part of everything than not.  Sorry if I offended you.  I'm an asshole when I find things annoying, but it's never out of hatred.

Everyone needs to take a breather and not confuse the cyncism or banter on here with hatred or “negative vibes.”  Life is never all sunshine and rainbows.  You shouldn't expect the psytrance community to be that way all the time either.

So its the part where moderators should  step in and cut all negative!!!

Yeah, let's just cut it out and pretend it doesn't exist.  Censor people who post things that you or any moderator views as negative.  That's realistic.

[Machi]

You'll snap out of it.  I feel like that sometimes too, but overall I still find more positive things from being a part of everything than not.  Sorry if I offended you.  I'm an asshole when I find things annoying, but it's never out of hatred.

yeah, I don't really want to snap out of it when I have clear understanding what I am dealing with.
It's funny to see real faces of the people who are much less easy going, happy and loving in real life then at the parties when they are loaded on some happy shit…

[Machi]

You seem to just have a problem with my personality.  Tough shit.  We don't have to talk to each other or respond to each other's posts if you think it would help.

really man, I don't care. I don't have problem with your personality, I have the problem with lack of it….

[edais]

You seem to just have a problem with my personality.  Tough shit.  We don't have to talk to each other or respond to each other's posts if you think it would help.

really man, I don't care. I don't have problem with your personality, I have the problem with lack of it….

Ok, have fun in your fairytale world.  Some of us aren't happy all the time like you and it's not necessarily our fault.  I do my best to not directly take it out on anyone, but hell if I'm going to fake positivity or not post because I'm not praising how great/important/funny some mediocre thing is.

[cosmicvibrations]

I have to say, I agree with Phil. Darkness is healthy… anger, annoyance, and everything else are an undeniable part of life. To turn this forum into a “100% positive” place would not only be impossible, but in my opinion, less fun. Less real.

We're all people. We all have all sorts of emotions and go through all sorts of shit. When people talk, emotions fly, personal demons come up, and everything else. And I think that's perfectly okay. Some people act like assholes… it's normal – it's real. Repressing issues doesn't make them go away.

I'm sorry people are wanting to leave the psy community (Machi). It's understandable really… perhaps your path leads you elsewhere. Maybe this “scene” has served its purpose for you, and now its time is over. Maybe you need some space from this. I know Sun Ra's path definitely lead her elsewhere, and I don't think any one factor can be blamed for that.

[PsySex]

I have to say, I agree with Phil. Darkness is healthy… anger, annoyance, and everything else are an undeniable part of life. To turn this forum into a “100% positive” place would not only be impossible, but in my opinion, less fun. Less real.

We're all people. We all have all sorts of emotions and go through all sorts of shit. When people talk, emotions fly, personal demons come up, and everything else. And I think that's perfectly okay. Some people act like assholes… it's normal – it's real. Repressing issues doesn't make them go away.

I'm sorry people are wanting to leave the psy community (Machi). It's understandable really… perhaps your path leads you elsewhere. Maybe this “scene” has served its purpose for you, and now its time is over. Maybe you need some space from this. I know Sun Ra's path definitely lead her elsewhere, and I don't think any one factor can be blamed for that.

I agree with you Leo its totally place for arguing and different types of opinions hear and also for some darkens!!!
But what would you say if i will call you ass hole for a couple weeks???

[edais]

I'd say “I don't know what's up his butt.  Whatever.”

I just baked some dank chocolate chip cookies!  How's that for positivity?

Suck it, bitches!  😀

[PookztA]

I agree with all of you to various levels.

I think negativity is a healthy part of life, because somethings piss us off and unless we express that, it will bring us down from the inside out.

BUT, there are various ways to express negativity. One can do so without horrible name calling or extreme disrespect.

For example, one could say “damn that guy was disrespectful” or “damn that event pissed me off today”

instead of saying “fuck you asshole” or “i fucking hate events, they piss me the fuck off”

although both ways are totally normal and healthy, the first one seems more appropriate for a public forum that has lots of nice and loving people in it.

just my 2 cents, because I agree with Max and Machi, that extreme negativity is harmful to others, but I also agree with Phil in the sense that negativity, when expressed in a mature and respectful way, can be a good thing.

compromise. 🙂

-Abe

[Raven.Nights]

I'd say “I don't know what's up his butt.  Whatever.”

I just baked some dank chocolate chip cookies!  How's that for positivity?

Suck it, bitches!  😀

Goddamnit now I want some fucking cookies. 

Shit.  Here I am without any damn flour.

[edais]

I love it, because you can bake about 3 or 4 dozen and all the ingredients just stick around!  The only things you have to buy regularly is eggs, chocolate chips, and butter.

[cosmicvibrations]

Max, honest answer:

If I felt the name calling was unjustified, I'd be angry, upset, defensive, and I wouldn't listen to what you're saying. I'd also probably see that you have some issues you need to work on which have nothing to do with me. If everyone was doing it, I would probably consider leaving the forum to take some space and process my emotions, which would likely be pretty flared up.

As emotions started to subside (or even before then), I would probably be looking for what lesson I can glean from the experience, and how I can ultimately channel it into something positive for myself. And I'd be listening to my intuition about whether I should stick around.

[PsySex]

Max, honest answer:

If I felt the name calling was unjustified, I'd be angry, upset, defensive, and I wouldn't listen to what you're saying. I'd also probably see that you have some issues you need to work on which have nothing to do with me. If everyone was doing it, I would probably consider leaving the forum to take some space and process my emotions, which would likely be pretty flared up.

As emotions started to subside (or even before then), I would probably be looking for what lesson I can glean from the experience, and how I can ultimately channel it into something positive for myself. And I'd be listening to my intuition about whether I should stick around.

Tnx its exactly what im trying to explain!!!

[aktif]

DaaaaAAAAAAD!  The kids aren't being NICE!  Go talk to their parents for me!

We are all fucking adults….I have a problem, I send you a PM, I don't then I don't….

This is just WAAAAY to much fun….if you think we all need to be licking eachothers teeth all the damn time then stop eating so much extacy and wilkomen aus real world….my parents didn't kill me with kindness so I appreciate being REAL HUMANS….

Can we NOT moderate and let humanity previal?  Dudeguy will quit as soon as you all ignore him, he likes this, can't you tell.  His feelings aren't getting hurt, he has a ferocious smile when logging on, not puppy dog eyes of sadness…jeeEEEEsus

as for the rest of it…Ppl ask and they recieve…Phil acts like a bitch cuz he is a man, he can take life, I am in the same boat…I offend you with my brash use of language, well actually I am teaching you tolerance so you don't look like a deer in headlights when someone in REAL LIFE (maybe myself) comes up and starts dropping obsceneties and genrally yelling stuff like I sometimes do….

This is the BEST chill forums have EVER been for me

poll that shit, then we can talk about manditory hugs and buttseks at login….

I love watching everyone be REAL!!!!!  THIS is who we are…let's embrace it and each other for who we REALLY are…..Let's learn from ourselfs and about ourselves and eachother….

Pardon the spelling and grammer and I love you all, thank you for inviting myself and others for private tours of your yourself….

:-*

now to get us back to where we were,

you smell.

[Machi]

Ok, have fun in your fairytale world.  Some of us aren't happy all the time like you and it's not necessarily our fault.  I do my best to not directly take it out on anyone, but hell if I'm going to fake positivity or not post because I'm not praising how great/important/funny some mediocre thing is.

which part of my world do you call fairytale you ignorant asshole? i am not happy all the time but i do work hard for the things that bring happiness to my life. what do you do?

p.s. remember that buttsex can only get you so far….

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