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PookztAMember(#5 is the most important in my opinion, which is why I force myself to smile as often as possible)
910 Tips to a More Positive Life
from: http://www.only-positive-news.com/Positive news starts with yourself. When you feel more positive, a ripple effect takes place, with far-reaching consequences.
Here are a few pointers from an article in Stepcase Lifehack. They may seem rather basic but essentially, feeling positive is pretty simple if you allow it to be so. The great part? Some small changes can make a big difference.
1. Appreciate as much as you can. This is one of those very simple things you can do to bring more positivity in to your life. I have also found appreciation to be a great way to turn an angry, sad and frustrated mood around to a more positive one.
2. Stop comparing yourself to others. If you don´t then you´ll just create a lot of unnecessary pain in your life. If you pass one person then you´ll just find another person more successful than you. And your brief sense of being a winner will transform once again into anxiety, fear, tummy-aches and possibly heart-attacks.
3. Realize that it is possible to choose how you react. You don´t have live your life in reaction. You have a choice. There is always a gap between stimuli and reaction. If you focus on that gap it will widen and although it might seem in the beginning like stimuli and your reaction are tied together that is not the case.
4. Educate yourself. Self-education can be a great help to live a more positive life. Read great books on the areas of your life you want to improve. Maybe it’s it your financial situation. Or your health. Or your relationships. Ask people with more success in that area than you what they did to improve.
5. Act as if. Your emotions work backwards too. So even if you don´t feel positive, confident, calm or decisive you can act like it. And after you have done that for a few minutes, guess what happens? You will actually start to feel positive, confident, calm or decisive.
6. Live in the now. Don´t let your thoughts drift into the past or future more than necessary. It’s often a sure-fire way to start negative loops of thoughts in your mind.
7. Do some mental rehearsal. This is great way to improve your performance and decrease anxiety in any upcoming situation. Maybe you´re heading into a meeting soon. Then visualize now how great the events will unfold – see and hear it – and also how great will you feel at this meeting.
8. Redefine failure. Michael Jordan once said: “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”
9. Focus on what you want, not on what you don´t want. One common problem is to focus your thoughts on what you don´t want rather than what you want. If you do that then it will be hard to get what you want in life. If you want to improve your finances then focus on having a great financial situation rather than your lack of money and your debts.
10. Drink more good beer. (good call, Damon)

also, check out this site for positive news: http://www.happynews.com
edaisGuestThanks.
PookztAMemberThanks.
no problem buddy
emilybobemilyGuest3. Realize that it is possible to choose how you react. You don´t have live your life in reaction. You have a choice. There is always a gap between stimuli and reaction. If you focus on that gap it will widen and although it might seem in the beginning like stimuli and your reaction are tied together that is not the case.
funny story.
at the TOUCH Samadhi Equinox festival in 08, me and my buddies were sitting around the campsite making hot tea over the fire in one of those old school, tea kettles that whistle. except my friend Amanda forgot to put the cap on the spout, so when it started to 'whistle' it just sprayed boiling water everywhere. well, my best friend Eric was sitting beside the kettle talking and it sprayed him. his immediate reaction when sprayed with the hot water was not to yell 'ouch' or 'help' or 'that's hot'…. the dude just jumps up and screams “I SPIT HOT FIYAH!” He then proceeds to burst out laughing and look around really confused trying to figure out why his gut reaction to pain was 'I spit hot fiyah'.
so… I guess the moral of the story is that you can't *always* choose how you react. 😛
it was hilarious
PookztAMember3. Realize that it is possible to choose how you react. You don´t have live your life in reaction. You have a choice. There is always a gap between stimuli and reaction. If you focus on that gap it will widen and although it might seem in the beginning like stimuli and your reaction are tied together that is not the case.
funny story.
at the TOUCH Samadhi Equinox festival in 08, me and my buddies were sitting around the campsite making hot tea over the fire in one of those old school, tea kettles that whistle. except my friend Amanda forgot to put the cap on the spout, so when it started to 'whistle' it just sprayed boiling water everywhere. well, my best friend Eric was sitting beside the kettle talking and it sprayed him. his immediate reaction when sprayed with the hot water was not to yell 'ouch' or 'help' or 'that's hot'…. the dude just jumps up and screams “I SPIT HOT FIYAH!” He then proceeds to burst out laughing and look around really confused trying to figure out why his gut reaction to pain was 'I spit hot fiyah'.
so… I guess the moral of the story is that you can't *always* choose how you react. 😛
it was hilarious
haha cool story 🙂 you are indeed correct, sometimes our reactions are reflexes, and sometimes even weird reflexes. but still, there are tons and tons of situations where we have the choice to react how we want.
funny story Emily, it was fun trying to picture it as it happened.
aktifMemberneat
zensphereMember3. Realize that it is possible to choose how you react. You don´t have live your life in reaction. You have a choice. There is always a gap between stimuli and reaction. If you focus on that gap it will widen and although it might seem in the beginning like stimuli and your reaction are tied together that is not the case.
funny story.
at the TOUCH Samadhi Equinox festival in 08, me and my buddies were sitting around the campsite making hot tea over the fire in one of those old school, tea kettles that whistle. except my friend Amanda forgot to put the cap on the spout, so when it started to 'whistle' it just sprayed boiling water everywhere. well, my best friend Eric was sitting beside the kettle talking and it sprayed him. his immediate reaction when sprayed with the hot water was not to yell 'ouch' or 'help' or 'that's hot'…. the dude just jumps up and screams “I SPIT HOT FIYAH!” He then proceeds to burst out laughing and look around really confused trying to figure out why his gut reaction to pain was 'I spit hot fiyah'.
so… I guess the moral of the story is that you can't *always* choose how you react. 😛
it was hilarious
haha cool story 🙂 you are indeed correct, sometimes our reactions are reflexes, and sometimes even weird reflexes. but still, there are tons and tons of situations where we have the choice to react how we want.
funny story Emily, it was fun trying to picture it as it happened.
I think we can condition our reflexes and subconscious attitudes by using our conscious minds, at least to some extent.
Gandhi, when he was shot, said “Raam, raam” – the name of a hindu diety – because that's what his mind was absorbed in.
PookztAMemberI think we can condition our reflexes and subconscious attitudes by using our conscious minds, at least to some extent.
agreed.
damonMemberDamon's 1 tip to a moar positive life:
DRINK MOAR GOOD BEER.
PookztAMemberDamon's 1 tip to a moar positive life:
DRINK MOAR GOOD BEER.
I believe you are correct sir…
…come to think of it, that should be added to the list. i will go add it now
AscensionKeymasterBeer= passage to cloud 10.
Cool stuff Abe, thanks for posting.
emilybobemilyGuestDamon's 1 tip to a moar positive life:
DRINK MOAR GOOD BEER.
I concur!
PookztAMemberBeer= passage to cloud 10.
Cool stuff Abe, thanks for posting.
you are welcome sir, thanks for the thanks 🙂
cosmicvibrationsMemberEmily, that story's hilarious.
psycherhexicMemberI have a question for the doctor in the house.
Is drinking an average amount of alcohol bad for you?
My friend was trying to show me his Jahova reference guide where it says that gods cool with alcohol but not pot because pot takes your body months to rid itself of the effects/chemical by products.
Considering my grandfather drank himself to death.. I was under the impression alcohol left bad shit behind too..
other than my stupid question, thanks for the tips!!
although number ten confuses me.
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